Are You Living In the Should Lane?
A t t e n t i o n all powerhouse women with a big mission but are living your life in the “SHOULD” lane….🧐
You know who you are. You keep playing it safe, dimming your light, and shying away from your real b r i l l i a n c e.
As the conscientious, responsible woman you are, you have the tendency of being totally in your head, overanalyzing every little thing, and having the pattern of self sabotaging your success as a result.
I have a real question for you. 👇🏼
Have you ever actually asked yourself what your desires are?! Like REALLY, your REAL desires—unrestricted!? 💫
I’m talking about the desires that are truly from you soul—NOT the decisions you make because you “should” do them because they’ll yield whatever result you’re being told you “should” want, and what you think is expected of you.
If you’re anything like I used to be, you probably feel like your big dreams and desires have restrictions on them…and you catch those sneaky limiting beliefs telling you that something can only be so good before the other shoe is going to drop. 🙈
Talk about a draining cycle of taking one step forward and two steps back.
Sister, I SO get it. I spent so many years living in my head, doing all the things I thought I was expected to do to please everyone else and be successful.
The “shoulds” ran my life. 😑
-I should take extra summer classes every year through college and graduate with double the amount of credits I need because it will show how dedicated I am to graduate schools.
-I should work 70-100 hours a week because if I’m not burning myself out, am I really even giving it all I’ve got?!
-I should do the extra grad school thesis because it will show how dynamic I am to future employers.
-I should take on every extra duty humanly possible to show what a team player I am.
-I should do this and that strategy in my business because that’s the only way I’ll have lasting success.
-I should stay in a marriage where unfaithfulness is tolerated because that’s what a “good, godly wife would do”.
-I should put smile on my face even though I’m dying inside because I’m the strong one everyone looks up to.
UNTIL I DIDN’T. 🎯
🗝Until I made my faith my own and decided to blaze my own trail.
🗝Until I intentionally chose to let go of the “shoulds”, and everything that was restricting me.
🗝Until I left my stable corporate career as a medical executive for the unknowns of entrepreneurship.
🗝Until I invested into my own personal, spiritual, and physical growth when it scared the daylights out of me.
🗝Until I left the marriage that crushed my heart daily.
🗝Until I decided that living in my small town was no longer serving my highest path.
🗝Until I realized that everyone else’s judgements and opinions were not paying my bills.
🗝Until I deepened my God given gifting and owned it in full force.
🗝Until I decided to go ALL IN in my life and choose the highest and best path, unrestricted.
🗝Until I decided to become purposefully whole from within instead.
Sister, your desires are there on purpose and for a purpose greater than you can fathom.
It’s not only safe to follow them, it’s literally👏🏽 the 👏🏽 catalyst that will catapult you into your highest calling on the path that will make your soul come alive.🔥
ANYTHING is possible. Literally, anything. 💫
It is my life’s work to expose every bit of your innate brilliance for you to see if for yourself and choose the BEST that’s meant for you in e v e r y area of your life while setting flames to the beliefs, patterns, or glass ceilings that are in your way and have held you back for far too long. 💘
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Life is so much sweeter living in the free lane. I promise.