To My Sisters Desiring Deep Love; A Note From My Heart To Yours

An overdue, heartfelt note to my beautiful clients-past, present, future, and truly to all the powerhouse women making their mark in this world:

When you’re a strong personality who is sure of yourself, speaks your truth and stands in your soul driven mission boldly, courageously, and unapologetically-you may have been told you’re “too much” for most men.

You may be to be too intelligent, too driven, too motivated, too secure in who you are that it intimidates them and they won’t know how to “handle you.”

The beauty here, is that you don’t need handling. You need a man who can come along side of you, be your vibrational match, look past all the ways you are “too much” for others and see straight into your soul, and embrace, revere, and adore your sacred feminine energy.

A man who is secure in his masculine will hold you in your divine feminine.

He will not try to control you, manipulate you, coerce you, speak negatively of you or to you, will not act out of fear, jealously, or spite.

He will see your divine gifting in full force and will edify you, uplift you, and strongly encourage you to pursue what sets your soul on fire as you live out the highest and best path for your life.

He will love you so fiercely that you finally feel safe to be all that you are, and you will never feel “too much”.

You will be able to trust him unequivocally and know he is protecting your heart-in all circumstances.

He will appreciate the fullness of beauty that encompasses everything you do, and will never make you feel like you’re not good enough or not worth his time or energy; in fact, he will be so energetically available for you as he makes you feel like the only woman in the world he even sees or wants to know on such a deep level-and he will do this intrinsically because he sees into your soul, he “gets you”.

The right man will pray with you, for you, and over you with so much passion that you will feel that love in the cells of your body.

You will be equally yoked, and have a soulful balance of being each other’s strength in the right times.

You will never have to worry if he’s being faithful because his actions will prove you are his one and only.

If his words and actions don’t align, there’s a problem.

If he beats around the bush and never fully opens up, he’s not the one. The right one will be emotionally nude with you and tell you all the things you need to hear, not just what you want to hear; he’s not afraid of speaking his truth with redeeming love and knows you will honor him in that.

If he can’t commit to you or be consistent in his actions of respect toward you, he’s not the one. The right one will never make you question his loyalty and commitment, but instead will go the extra mile for you because you are more than worth it to him.

If your intuition tells you something is off, trust it. Your soul knows before your mind will.

If he can’t be true to himself, he’s incapable of being true to you.

You will always be too much for a man who isn’t ready. You can’t make him ready, that’s his job. Don’t settle for the “great for right now” relationship, wait for the relationship that surpasses your every prayer and makes you feel like you’re living heaven on earth.

To the fiercely driven, soulful, powerhouse woman on a mission whose ever been told you’re “too much”: I see you. I see the glorious soul you are in every way and I love you for it. Your dream love is out there, wait for it. 

Keep on shining, sister.